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5 Bad Hasty Conclusions People Say That You Must Avoid

"Be miserable or motivate yourself, what ever has to be done, it's always your choice". ----Wayne Dyer.
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Often we make hasty conclusions on situations surrounding us without fully weighing the situations. The hasty conclusions are most times due to our emotions or what we hear people say. The hasty conclusions are...

1.  Am Not Good Enough.

Failing doesn't mean you are a failure, it means there is just another reason why what you did wouldn't work. The fact about life is that most times when we want to start something or hit a road-block in a situation, we develop an element of doubt. We mustn't give up because of that. Success is as a result of being persistent and consistent. Pick yourself up from where you stopped and continue (Read 10 Simple Truths Smart People Forget).

2.  Everybody Is Just The Same.

Due to present or past hurt, we tend to make the mistake of hastily concluding everybody is the same. Don't focus your energy on the negative side of people. If everybody dwelled on that, how do you think the world will be. Focus on the positive side of people. Everybody has there flaws, which also includes you (Read 5 Unique Ways To Forgive And Let Go).

Develop the habit of forgiving and letting go. You can't enjoy the present or appreciate what you currently have if you are still holding on to the past.  Make your attention be on the pros of people.

3. It Is Just a Waste Of Time.


Saying that discourages you from continuing to put the effort you were previously applying. Saying that to your team members can disrupt the team, making them give up.

It's important to keep a positive mental attitude and put your best effort in anything you're doing. Have a "anything worth doing is worth doing well' mentality towards your tasks. Remember your "Attitude most times determine your Altitude"(Read The 3 Habits Of Highly Successful People).

4.  No one Cares About Me.

Most times people mistake care and get so selfish about it. When it comes to care, ask yourself this question, do I show genuine love or care to anyone I meet? Depending on what your answer is, start walking in love and be concern about the welfare of others and see how the love you show others will directly or indirectly come back to you (Read 20 Things To Start Doing In Your Relationships).

If you say to your self, "I have tried that and still no result", take a look at it this way. Your Creator God loves you so much, irrespective of your actions. Make the love of God your focus and see what God's love can do in your life.

 5.  It doesn't make any difference.

Little thing make big differences.  The difference between a rich person and a poor person is the difference in the type of information he/ she has gathered over the years. Continue doing good and walking uprightly. You might not see the rewards but with time those your little deeds will amount to something bigger than you can imagine (Read 5 Things You Might Regret Not Doing Sooner).

Final Words

What other bad hasty conclusions do people make. Share it with us. Leave it in the comment section below.

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