4 Things You Should Do To Your lover During Bed Time

Assumptions are termites of relationships.  -Henry Winkler

Little actions, little complements can positively or negatively impact your relationship. If you are experiencing difficulties in your relationship, it is as a result of you not knowing certain things or you ignoring certain things. Everyone loves a good night rest. Telling your lover certain things or doing certain things at this most relaxed part of the day can be the vaccine your relationship needs. These are four things you should do to your lover during bed time.

1.  Appreciation

Everyone loves to be appreciated. Humans thrive in an environment where they are appreciated. Regularly complaining about how terrible your lover is will only bring out the worst of your lover. Why not look for a good deed that your lover has done and appreciate your lover for that good deed.

Tell your lover how lucky you are to have him/her in your life. Tell your partner how wonderful he/she is. This may look just like mere words to you but that's what you actually need to take your relationship to a whole new level.

2.  Complement Your Lover 

Genuinely telling your spouse that she is beautiful even without her wearing any makeup can glue a dividing relationship. Telling your man you loved the outfit he wore to work is a plus to his self esteem therefore cementing your relationship. Persistently complaining about the shortcomings of your lover will only bring about more shortcomings.

3.  Affectionate Talking

No matter how stressful your day was , even though your partner didn't do as much work you have done for the day, always create time to know how your lover's day went. Don't just assume your lover's day was perfect; ask your lover for a downpour. It is through discussions like this understanding is built in a relationship.

4.  A Kiss

A simple kiss if done with a genuine intention can do more than a thousand words. Understanding the love language of your lover is of great importance in sustaining the romance in your relationship. What your ex liked may be different from what your current lover likes. Your present lover may not feel comfortable with all your cuddling and holding while your ex loved it (Read 5 love languages).

Conclusion

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